Wokebrain/Progressive Tryhard: "Wait, you're attracted to someone of the opposite sex AND the same sex? -gasps- That must mean you're Gay!"
Today, I wish to toss in my two cents and expose this misconception for what it is; trite pandering.
I blame Tumblr and the Usual Suspects [*cough*Marvel, LucasFilms, IDW, CBS, Disney, puppet companies under Disney hopping on the Pride Month bandwagon*cough*] for promoting this asinine misconception. That if you're a woman who has romantic/sexual relations with men AND other women, you're automatically shipped in the same category as a man who has romantic/sexual relations with other men. When that's the furthest thing from the truth.
Contrary to what the fairytale image concocted by people with way too much free time and too much money to spend would have you believe, I'll spell it out here; if you are Gay, it means that you have a romantic attraction toward other men. It does not mean the same as you finding both men AND women attractive. That is called Bisexuality.
But that's not even the worst part. You see, Bisexuality Representation in Media is both the safest and the most annoying kind of Representation. Want to have a girl kissing another girl to show how progressive you are, but don't want to piss off the censors? Just say they're Gay and move on. So what if the characters involved previously hung out with male characters, and by mixing up Bisexuality with Homosexuality, we're pushing out the one group in the media that's been constantly fucked over and misrepresented as weak-willed self-destructive pansies or pedophiles, in exchange for one tumblrite's half-assed headcanon between two women who've barely spoken to each another? If we say they're Gay, the fangirls will justify our slacktivism for us by saying we're progressive. When in reality, it's to LGBT representation what the Kiddy Pool is compared to a Swimming Pool.
The term Gay refers to an orientation between one man and another man. It is not, and has never been, meant to be used as a cheaply-made umbrella term for lesbianism, bisexuality, intersexuality, transgenderism [which isn't a sexual orientation, but rather transitioning from one sexuality to the other], etc. that you can slap on a business sign and call it a day. When you keep peddling this misconception, all you wind up with is an ocean of Korrasamis.
And it's a fine mess, indeed. Notes'll be a bitch to sort through, favoriting deviations is fiddly as a drunken fiddler crab playing Limbo and I've a strong feeling a good number of my friends will leave because of it.
Congratulations. You managed to make Tumblr 2 Point-Blow. I hope LucasFilms decides to take a page out of this wretched update.